I mean, I wouldn't consider myself fat but I am not skinny and I fell like I have no chance with anyone, I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 20 years old. Do I need to lose weight to be with somebody? I know there are several girls out there that are 20 and have never been with anyone but there are way more that have had several boyfriends and I just and really hoping that it's not because of my size. I would say I'm pretty funny and I am definitely not ugly but I seriously don't know what I'm doing wrong. I feel like I have a sign on that says don't date me.
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Sweet pea, its all in the confidence! You are young, and every woman in their early twenties feels insecure...skinny or larger...but from someone that was skinny then, to someone who is curvy now, I get more attention, because I'm more con=fident in myself..I have more "life" under my belt! Ever walked out the gym after a great workout, and you feel great, but you don't look the way you walked in? And noticed the men staring?! Its the confidence yo exude! It takes time to feel and know that! So, your sign that says don't date me, is the one that you put up when you avoid eye contact with men and walk without sass. you are 20, honey, work it! Gravity and metabolism are on your side! :) You will be ok..Just love your body, and you'll find someone else to love it! That's the only thing you are doing wrong! My guy friend said to me, when I was having an insecure moment, every woman possesses their own sexiness...its true!Work it!1