There's this girl that I've been talking to a bit lately. She's not just a girl. we had a thing for each other like 2 years ago, and I blew it. I mean.she's amazing -- we had a good thing, and it was nearly exclusive. And she reallllllly liked me as well.
I ended up taking my ex girlfriend back while I was talking to this girl, and that's how I f**ked up, but whatever. that's beside the point.
Since that whole situation we have barely been friends. I've seen her like 10 times in the past 2 years. One day, a few weeks ago she randomly texted me saying she missed me and she wanted to hang out. So I invited her to my party, and we've partied together like 3 times since then (over the past few weeks). Whenever we're together we have pretty deep convos about how we felt and about how I regret my decision etc. (She has a boyfriend now btw).
The past few weekends we have had some serious text convos. they've lasted like 3 hours, but we were both drunk/tipsy during the convos. Either way, she opens up to me big time during these texting conversations. She complains about her boyfriend and tells me that I'm the only person she can trust.
Here are some examples of texts:
--"Someday soon! :):) you're the best cody. Honestly." <--after I cracked a joke about hopefully seeing her again.
--":) your so awesome." <-- after an unresponded text. Like she sent two in a row.
--"Ah.:( :( everyone has these perfect boyfriends. And mine. Acts like he's too good. He's in college. Am I that bad?"
--"I DONT know who to trust. I know I can trust you. And my parents. That's it."
--"Good. Because. You're awesome. And you're one person. that I can trust. And am willing to have beside me :) through it all."
There are plenty more like that. I mean, this is just one convo that I still have in my outbox. I usually text her the following Sunday, but she doesn't respond. I can't help but to think that she feels guilty or embarassed about the texts.
Somebody tell me what these mean and what I should do. I like her A LOT, and I have for two years.
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Yea dude. She obvious likes you, she's even sayin bad stuff about her boyfriend. She says that you and her parents are the only ones she can trust. That's huge. I think you should invite her to another party and make it clear you want her (but do you have a girlfriend right now?). if she starts talkin about her boyfriend, tell her to dump him. That text up there about her boyfriend says she ain't happy right now that she's questioning herself, and she can't even trust her own boyfriend, she trusts you over anyone, somethin she doesn't have with anyone else but you. Tell her flat out to just dump her boyfriend is what I'd say. I think she would dump him, then go for her. even if she doesn't, just go for her cause you like her ALOT.0