I want my ex boyfriend back. He is dating a girl that is nothing like me physically. She is short & chubby & very plain probably a 3. I exercise & take very good care of myself, thin with a pretty face & nice shape & more of a 7 or 8. Our personalities are close to the same. Why would he not date a girl that is better looking & can I get him back? He does call me occasionally even though he's in a committed relationship with her. He's being dishonest with her. Is she just someone to occupy his time or maybe he afraid or confused about us. He has low self esteem.
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Maybe just the fact that you're apparently a total 'hottie' makes him wonder (with his reported low self esteem) what other guys he's in competition with for your favor. Maybe with this less than attractive and somewhat overweight plain girl, he doesn't have to be concerned with that.
He sounds like a laid back, accepting type of guy who would be happy with you even after you gained a few pounds and lost some of your physical beauty to time.
He's probably a better friend than he will be a boyfriend since he stays in touch and asks about your well being.
In your earlier replies you say that you always showed him love, kindness and treated him like a king and in the next you say you took each other for granted. Seems like he's found someone who probably needs and appreciates him and he doesn't have to try to be a better person to measure up to her levels.
Probably best for you to accept that he's happy with his lot and you need to find someone more equal to you, more self confident and more appreciative of your efforts to be the best you can.1