be very careful. there's a good chance you're his back-up. he told you himself he's tried finding a new girl and they aren't comparing to you. so, is he trying to get back together with you? and if so, have you guy resolved the issues you had while you were together? OR is he just making sure you're around and throwing you a bone here and there because he's worried he might not meet someone? ask yourself, how would you feel if you meet with him and see him and hope to get back together and don't move on with your life and then you hear one day that one of those girls on the dating site is one he liked and has started seeing regularly?
he may have realized a loss and changed his mind. or he's just using you to feel good about having you there for him when he wants you to be there...until he finds someone else. tread lightly...
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yeah...obviously you are his plan B. he wants to move on but at the same time he does not want to regret later on if he doesn't find a good girl. so on one hand he is keeping you around (making sure you don't move on 0 while on the other he is joining dating sites and looking for other girls. he is not promising you anything because he does not want to be seen as a bad guy in the end if he gets a new girl.
its crystal clear, my friend. you don't need us to tell you something which is so obvious. don't let your heart make excuses for him..."maybe he did that because.." ..."maybe he is confused".." maybe he said this so as to..."... NO! if the guy loves you and wants to be with you he will be with you and not break up and join dating sites.
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