If a person really really loves you, unconditionally -- and you know it. He or she accepts you no matter what. HOWEVER, they have so, so many flaws. They don't understand you and they don't get it -- it's not that they don't want to, they just don't know how. You've tried communication to various degrees (yes -- even straight out telling the person) but they still don't understand the type of person you are and what you want and need in a relationship. They have different beliefs than you about relationships and they don't think enough about it to compromise -- they just don't understand. For example, on a birthday, they would tell you happy birthday at the end of the day and that's about it -- just because that's how they are. You are a very passionate person and you like to show and receive passion -- they probably could not even define what passion is. It's just nothing gets through to this person emotionally -- yet they still love you and care for you. Also, they are the complete opposite of everything that you ever wanted in a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Given this information, would you still give them a chance? Just because they truly, truly love you? Or you would spare the possibility of hurting the person and let them go?
(I honestly don't want to hurt them, but they won't take No for an answer and keep pushing)
- I would give him/her a chance.Vote A
- I wouldn't give him/her a chance.Vote B
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I voted A. I wouldn't mind going out on a few dates with them, and see where it leads. Also maybe the things I think I am looking for might not be what I actually need. I know a lot of men that end up married to the exact opposite type of woman they thought they always wanted, and they couldn't be happier.
In order to have a long term relationship with the person, we would HAVE to be able to work through our communication issues. If we can't do that after dating for a while I would call it quits.2