okk well I don't know what's wrong with me buuut I mean at 1st I really really like that guy but then like 2 weeks later I don't know what happens I just stop and I don't feel comfortable anymore, I would even try to avoid him which I felt bad. I talked 2 my friends but they didn't get me, they understood me in a different way or idk. I've gone out with this same guy like 3 times, but it always ends because of my stupid feelings. and then some time later I start 2 like him again! uugh this is driving me nuuuts! any advice?
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You know.I thought I was the only one like that! When ever I would date a guy, the IDEA of him was more interesting than him himself. Being with him.I always wanted to shoot myself in the head because he drove me nuts. But when I wasn't with him.I was able to conjure up ideas that if maybe he did this or that, things would be different, and I'd find myself attracted to him. It didn't end until I finally kinda took control of what I wanted from the relationship. If I wanted this, I'd go for it. I also was the type that got super bored with a guy easily.and fast. Then my husband came along and WOW still on a crazy ride with him! He definitely keeps me on my toes and interested. I think it all boils down to your probably either thinking of this guy on a certain way, and that's just not who he really is. Or your just not with the right guy yet. Trust me.when the right guy comes along.you'll definitely never stop being interested ;)2