I started talking to this guy strictly over texting for two months over the summer. We couldn't hang out because we lived two hours away from each other but he told me all the time that we were going to hang out once we started college. I believed him and I kind of started to like him and I really got the feeling that he liked me from the stuff that he said. However, the week before we moved into school he changed his relationship status to in a relationship which confused me beyond belief so I asked him about it and he told me that he was sorry and that he just wanted to be friends and that we were still definitely going to hang out at school still.
So we moved into school last Saturday and I saw him at one point but didn't go up to him but I texted him later that day and told him that I saw him. Then he texted me back "I want to see you" and I was like well I was going to come say hi earlier but I thought I would be weird and then he was like "Just come see me real fast please" and I was like I'm not in my dorm but I will be back soon and he was like "make sure you text me when you get back." Well walking back I happen to run into him but he was leaving to go somewhere but he told me he would come see me when he got back and then he texted me and told me the exact same thing 5 minutes later. So we went on a walk and it was really nice to see him and he told me that he would see me tomorrow when he walked me to my building. He texted me Sunday morning but never responded. Then Monday morning I sent him a long text about how if we were going to be friends we needed to hang out like normal friends and that I didn't want to try and be friends if he didn't want to back and that he could talk to me once he figured out what he wanted from me but of course he never texted me back. Well I saw him Monday night and he was yelling my name and waving at me which I thought was weird considering the message I had sent him and he never responded to. Then Tuesday night he texted me twice within the same hour but never said anything back when I texted back.
I really don't know what is going on with him. His girlfriend goes to the same college as us which kind of makes things weird but what I really don't get is why he would text me but never respond back when I text him back. Like why waste your time? He seemed like really excited and anxious to see me on Saturday which doesn't make sense for him to be like that but then not want to see me again.
So how long do you think I should give him for him to text me again or do you think that he probably never will again and he is just going to completely forget about me because that is what I am afraid of? Or should I just give him a week or two and just text him and say hey and see if he responds then and go from there?
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Listen...This guy you like is confused he doesn't know what he wants to do he likes you but he likes his girlfriend 2... DO NOT text him he will just think your obsessive or he will think that he can have you anytime he wants 2 so its not a good idea! Just wait for him 2 text you..And when you accidentally see him at college go up 2 him and start flirting a bit with him and then just ask him strait up..Tell him : listen I like you more then friend I just want to know how you feel about me...? If you don't like me its fine cause life goes on but if you do then let me know cause am not gonna wait for you any more.! YOU need 2 be clear with him so he know that you won't wait for him so if he doesn't like you you will move on...Lots of boys out there that are cute and SINGLE.! ;p hope it helps!0
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