Would you ever date a girl that has a kid it would that be too much to handle?
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I have a 3 year old child and I have no problem dating.. I don't bring every man home to my son obviously altho I have introduced him to most recent boyfriend,.
he has no problem with it and if he did well too bad f*** off my son is my life myself and my sons father are no longer to gether as things did not work out as for being''too young and dumb'' tahts not the case I do not believe in marriage...
i don't regret having my child and never will, and if another man is will to start dating me and get more serious then he takes me and my child or leaves.
a child does NOT make things harder or more complictaed, I mean sure maybe another man doesn't want to raise a child that isn't his biologically, and that's fair enough
there is a difference between a dad and a father, a dad is a sperm doner that's all my ex is, the new man in my life atm will eventuall be myy sons father.. why not he is the one raisng my child and supporting us both,.. every child needs a dad/father male figure in thier life its just a shame that these men that make these babies don't want thme in the long run , and it takes a real man to step up and become the father of a child that is not his, or become the male figure in the childs life
also on this note single mums are usually more independant, more organised and money orientated, what I'm saying is dating a mum has ups and downs
but remeber if you take the mum she has a child that goes to... my oppion anyway... hopr this heelps :)0