We only saw each other for 2 hours last week and I miss him a lot (he lives 2 hrs away now)... so I asked him to hangout this weekend and he says maybe?! I was so hurt and he's like OK, let me think of something. Meanwhile he has a friend (girl) coming to stay for at least one night. We have no future plans but he told me all of his plans for the next few weeks with his friends and hopefully we can work out stuff when he's visiting close by. WTF is that?!
I asked him to hang out, he said "maybe"...
What Guys Said 1
That is him already having plans. Maybe he's more interested in this other girl. Maybe you should ask him.. :)0
What Girls Said 1
He said he's going to think of something so you can hang out, which is what most people would say when they are booked with plans. There's no reason to be upset, you can't expect him to drop plans he already made just to make you happy, he has other friends to think about too. If he dropped everything to hang out with you, it would make him a crappy friend to all the other people he just ditched. If you were dating it might be a bit of a different story, but if you aren't, you shouldn't try to be controlling him or getting upset when he has plans with other people first.0
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