Hi, I broke up with my first boyfriend a few months ago, it was a long and serious relationship. I've dated a few people since him but I'm getting an insane amount of attention and I don't know how to handle it basically.
There are lots of guys who are interested in me and I like four of them, but I don't know any of them enough to choose which I like best. I'm not ashamed of sex or dating them but somehow it seems crazy to date four guys?
1-I have slept with, he works at my favorite restaurant
2-lots of flirting but nothing physical, but talks of it
3-a friend of a friend- I'm gonna be set up on a date with him
4-is away traveling but we are going on a date when he gets back
1 and 3 are the less likely of the four to turn into anything, should I just forget about them and focus on 2 and 4?
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It is too hard for most girls cause they get emotionally attached. Where for me being a guy when dating multiple girls. I always try to be the nice guy from the start ands let them know the I am interested, cause I am, but if something happens I don't want them to think that I am committed to "you" I do have multiple female friends that I "hangout" with.
but if your dating 4 guys some one is bound to label you a slut or whore. doesn't matter what your doing with them.
i don't belive in double standards, a girl has to "get hers" too.0