There's this guy that I met my freshman year of college (last year) and he is a senior. We ended up hanging out a lot before Christmas break, nothing more than friends. Never ever thought he was the type of guy I would fall for. Then, it became obvious by his actions and words and by his friends that he had feelings for me during the month of January. Months went by and we still hung out as friends and I went through a really tough time for a few months during spring. He told me that he liked me and I started to have some feelings for him but not a lot. I was his first kiss, first girl he ever held hands with etc.. he had never had a girlfriend before and I thought that was absolutely precious and thought that I would be the one in control of my emotions because I never thought he would end things. A few months into summer we continued spending time together, kissing, going on dates etc and then because I got scared of my feelings I went on a double date with a really good friend of mine and her boyfriend. Because I always tell him what I'm up to he could tell that I wasn't telling him something. He got it out of me and said, "I don't know what to say." I felt so bad and for the first time I realized how much I really cared about him and my feelings grew stronger. I began to let my guard down with him and allowed myself to feel. (I have this wall up because I got my heart broken in the past). Finally, we hung out once after that and then I went to Dallas, Texas for work. I was dying to know where we stood as a couple. He texted me and wanted some time to think about how he was going to word things. We weren't able to talk over the phone because I have been so busy with my new business and we usually talk one on one but this is the only way we could communicate. He said that because I went out with that guy he thought things weren't really working and then he doesn't know where he's going to be geographically in the next few years -- and again, remember he is a gentleman. He was trying to be as gracious as he could with my heart but this killed me. He said we have different passions etc etc.. So he said it sucks for him too but he still wants to be good friends and that he loves spending time with me. But then I saw him once I got back from Dallas as friends. We hungout all day and we treated each other the same as we always did. Lots of laughing, joking around (we built a strong friendship, it wasn't always intimate). Then, that night I was laying down by him on the couch and he was sitting. We were watching a movie and when it got done I continued to lay there. He's not the type of person who would just do what he's about to do. He starts massaging my back for like 20 minutes and then I turned around. He picked me up and starting kissing me really passionately (makes me cry thinking about it). I didn't hesitate to kiss him back. We madeout for 30 minutes and then I said I needed to go home. We haven't talked about this since. Why did he kiss me?
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Its really clear that He still likes you and cares a lot about you. The massage alone was a clue as to what would be going on next. He wanted for you to be relaxed and enjoy the moment and make it very special for the both of you. You gotta ask him. He did it in his own way to show that he cares about you. IF he was a player he wouldn't talk to you peroid. Maybe he felt hurt when you said that you wanted to go home. You should try and talk to him and see how things are and where you stand. To me. This guy truly cares about you.
I hope this helps in some way and the best of luck to ya. You seem like a really sweet girl and You deserve the best. Try to hangout with him again and see what happens.1