im 19 he's 21 we were in a relationship 2 years and he ended it. 2 weeks since the break up and we hung out thursday. we had a heartfelt conversation he told me he missed me and thinks about me everyday and he cares about me so much. He apologized for being an ass and said I was an angel and deserved much better. I kept telling him that this is what he wanted. And if that's what he wants then we should just be friends. He agreed and said I think that's best. Well he kissed me a million times and I spent the night. He didn't want to have sex with me, he just wanted to cuddle. He didn't want me to go the next day and still continued to kiss me. I told him I had things to do so he took me home. we haven't really spoken since.
Did he maybe want me back and I ruined it? or what is going on. I love him and want to be with him badly but I'm trying to show him I have changed.
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You told him that you wanted to be friends. Friends don't kiss each other a million times and spend the night, and cuddle. No need to make this harder than it has to be, so why don't you just say that you want him back? Ask him why he would kiss you and cuddle if he didn't want you back.
I don't see the point in kissing and cuddling if he didn't want you back. And if he wanted you for sex then he would've tried. So he might want to get back together, its hard to say.
Be the bigger person and confess your feelings and desires to him. You don't have anything to lose.0