I just came back from downtown. I went to downtown hoping to get a girl. I have been reading books on how to talk to women. The tips and advices that the authors give are reasonable and they make sense. While I read the tips, I visualized myself using these tips and talking to girls. However, when I am in the real world its different. I find it so hard to approach random women because I really don't know what to say to them because they are complete strangers. I hate this; why is this so hard? Why do I have trouble speaking to women?
Most Helpful Girl
It's not hard.
It's hard for you because you're placing too much pressure on yourself by hoping to get a girl. You're not trying to talk to women but trying to get a girl big difference.
Plus you're not treating girls as human beings but some kid of experiment to use tips & advice on from most likely pua books.
Then there's the stranger aspect some people don't have an issue introducing themselves to strangers apparently you do.
Start talking to women just to talk to people and make conversation.1