My boyfriend told me that kissing and making out is boring but I'm only 16 and I don't know if I'm ready to go much farther than that. What can I do to make it less boring?
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hey if you don't wanna go further, don't go further
sounds like he's trying to put the full court press on you to get what he wants, but in my experience it always makes the girl have lower self-esteem and usually ruins the relationship by either: a) making her obsessed with the guy because she wants to subconsciously force it to work so she doesn't feel used or b) ends up resenting him for not waiting for the right time
it's nice to hear that someone at such a young age still holds out. hearing all this business about kids becoming sexually active at younger ages just makes me not want to have daughters.
keep holding off until you feel confident enough to go further. I'm not even a conservative person either, but I do think that some people (guys and girls) can be pretty convincing so you gotta stick to your guns. It's got way more positive effects on your personality than the alternative
Personally, I think kissing combined with heavy petting is AWESOME. Just reminds me of high school behind the blue hall stairs hahah4