I met this girl on a dating site back in April, we hit it off. I really liked her. We saw each other every weekend and she spent my days off with me when she had the chance. She asked if she was my girlfriend after 3 months? wow really? OK this is a dating site the purpose is to date. Granted we stared to have sex (a lot of great sex) and yes I might have initiated it, we were sexually compatible OK, she should have known that I met her on a dating site, and I was still active on the site. Then recently she ended it because she said she was falling for me, huh? let me repeat we met on a dating site.
She said she didn't want to be used for sex. OK then why did she go along with it for so long then? I don't fully understand female's. So then she tells me how this is not what she wants, she wanted invest in to a relationship that's going to grow. but then why end it if the sex was so good. And why the tears when she was ending it? I was angry for all of this I didn't lead her on, but I'm the bad guy?
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Being on a 'dating' site doesn't mean that you're not looking for a relationship. My situation has some similar occurances to your, but I was willing to curtail or stop the sex to focus on building a LTR. But for me, I'd fallen in love with her.
I believe that two can have sex and build a LTR at the same time. (Granting, others may disagree.) It sounds, to me, like you were not making any progress on building the non-sexual part of your relationship with her. And that's what she wanted.0