he's told me he just wants to be friends? this is after I chose to date someone else besides him. why must it be this way? I 'm willing to do anything.
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So he told you that he wanted to be just friends AFTER you turned him down for another guy? And you believed him?
He did it for two reasons:
1) to save face, and
2) to stay in the game.
Yes, he likes you and no, not just as a friend. He was hoping that, if he stuck around long enough, you'd see some side of him and think "gee, maybe I should give him another chance".
I don't agree with the general mantra that guys and girls can't be friends because sexual attraction gets in the way. I have a few girl friends that I have been friends with for ages and have zero sexual attraction to, but would do anything for. However, for the most part, it ends up holding true. That's not to say that you can't be friends with guys, but you do have to accept that, no matter what you say, they will probably have some degree of sexual attraction to you.0
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