I recently joined an online dating site and I am a nice looking guy with good job and have a lot going on. I have not had any contacts in like a week and I contacted many females and no one has replies. They must think awfully high of themselves and are stuck up or something. I mean what gives. I mean some reply but then when I suggest meeting up for a drink or whatever they vanish. I mean what do women expect these days. Just because I am not a doctor and make six figures is that a deal breaker. Women seem so superficial these days. I mean am I right or what.
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link Read this and enlighten yourself
When Match purchased okCupid they took this article down. It's only an image of the original article.
If you're wondering... behind the subscriber wall only one person is actually capable of writing you back.
Btw... okCupid is still free. But that doesn't mean a lot of the problems in the article don't apply to it.
Message girls who have recently joined
Message girls who are average or below average in looks, or with lousy photos
Message girls whose response rate is not in the red
Keep your message short... teasing... and write something that says you read their profile... stand out with some effort but not too much since she probably won't respond
Get a really good photo of yourself
That is how you get replies.3