I signed up over a month ago and still not a whole lot. I just got an email from a girl that would be promising but it didn't seem to go very far. She basically said "hey nick, your sexy. I'm the naughty type" (referencing something on my profile about how I normally go for the nice girls but the naughty type could be interesting too) But how do I respond to that?
Also if you want to be super helpful any tips to make my page seem more presentable? I tried to present myself accurately but sometimes its hard to do online. So any changes you would make?
ALSO IF WE WERE IN THE SAME CITY, and you were "looking" would you send me an email? would you respond? I'm good at the dating part but I SUCK at the preliminary stuff.
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I was on an online dating site for 7 months before I was contacted by my now boyfriend of half a year.
Sometimes things don't click right away. Sometimes things never really work out with online dating.
What I suggest, and what really worked for me was ask a question in your profile. Usually people like a challenge and will respond simply to try to answer it. I know it sounds strange, but it's a really great icebreaker and it helps to see if the people who are contacting you are actually reading your profile.
If you're looking for a serious relationship, put some interesting things about you in your profile, but don't give away everything. Also, outline some of the do's and don'ts about exactly what you're looking for. Put something that you aspire to do or to be one day in there too, girls (well most of them) are looking for someone who has a plan for the future if they're serious about finding a relationship. For example, "I like fixing cars but one day I really hope to become a chef."
Once you get talking to someone that you're sort of interested in, I suggest asking questions like, "can you give me 6 facts about yourself that aren't in your profile?" I found that one really worked out well and that's how I realized I clicked with my boyfriend.
I wish you luck! The online dating game is really hit and miss, but sometimes it's really worth it. :)0