There is this guy who has been chasing me for well over a year, until we did the getting drunk and sleeping with each other here and there, and then only a few months ago decided to do it casually. Well it was me that wanted a casual no strings thing. I knew he was a bit of a bad boy and I knew I just wanted sex to get over a guy I was seeing and actually liked who I found out had a girlfriend. Thing is he keeps saying all these things that he shouldn't say if you are having a casual fling! I don't know whether this is just what he does.? Or maybe he's just being nice? And then he'll go cold on me. No contact. Things were going fine, now I don't know what to think.any help people?
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Yes I agree but it takes a lot of work to be nice to a girl we have no feelings for. I would say he is gaining feelings. So on a scale of 1 to 100 wear he should be at a 0 to a 5 he is at a 20. That's why he can pull away. But he is worried that the more he sees you that 20 might become a 30 then 40 then 50. Don't take it badly. His head wants this to be as casual as you do. His heart may have other plans.0