Not fat girls but the ones who are not just flat everywhere. There not skinny or obese but they might have love handles and bigger thighs. What attracts guys to those kind of girls? What do you like about them? Also if you could choose between a pretty skinny girl and a pretty bigger girl, which would you choose not knowing either personality?
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I absolutely love big, curvy, voluptuous girls. To me they look very womanly and very different from myself. I think that is part of the attraction, being drawn to something you don't have. I even like when girls have love handles, with an hourglass figure...It basically just comes down to the specific guy, it's all relative. Even within the percentage of guys who like bigger girls there are different degrees, or thresholds, of what a guy considers fat, or too big. I would say though that the majority of men lean more towards thin women in general, because that's what society and the media have been pushing towards for the past several decades. The most subscribed to "erotic" material, in the US at least, is playboy magazine. I think that society in general implies that curvy girls are "fat" and that guys who like them are insecure and only going after them because they are desperate. Sadly, I think that many guys shy away from the girls they are actually attracted to (curvy girls) so that they are not criticized by friends and family. Not saying this happens all the time but I think it is fairly common. I know that I have felt that social pressure before with several of the girls I have dated. It's really terrible...But, I do feel selfishly guilty...I am almost glad that these perceptions exist. It just means more lovely, voluptuous beauties for me.3