A wee while ago a friend of mine told me (whilst I was in a complicated situation with a guy) that "Your first relationship isn't meant to last".
This got me thinking. Does anybody else think this is true? It just kind of makes me feel that when I do go out with a guy for the first time, it's doomed to failure. Is every first relationship star-crossed? Or is my friend talking a load of crap!?
Have you ever been in a first relationship which has lasted a long time?
Have you ever been in a first relationship in which the guy/girl has become a longterm fixture into your life?
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I don't think that it has to be true. But obviously the odds are against you. Because with each relationship you have, you learn more about yourself, what you want in the other person, what you don't want, and how to handle situations. Usually with the first relationship, you really don't know what you want, you're just happy that someone likes you. But I believe that a first time couple can work through those things, but it takes a couple of very special people with a strong connection, a lot of hard work and dedication.0