So I've been texting/chatting with this girl that I'm interested in for the last week. In her texts, she always seemed cheerful and casual, so generally just happy. Well today we hung out by going to a theme park, but this was with my 3 friends and one of her friends (It was her idea to have more people go to the park with us). After the park closed, we all went home and I texted her asking her if she got home safe, but she never responded for about an hour, so I texted her that I just wanted to let her know that I was sorry if it seemed like I was kind of ignoring her because I wanted to make sure my friends weren't having a bad time at the park. After this text, she responded and said that it didn't seem that way and she had fun, but she suddenly started using proper grammar and punctuation and just seemed cold in the following text conversations. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid or something, but did I do something wrong (she has class early tomorrow, but I don't know if that matters in this context)? If so, what's the best way to fix it?
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You can't interpret tone of text messages. Sometimes, we're just busy, or the way we say it in our head doesn't translate exactly, so it leads to a lot of misinterprtation - which usually leads to disasters.
When we get just short replies, of course we start wondering what went wrong...
But you have to keep in mind that its not necessarily related to you. Sometimes we also have personal issues that makes us in a bad mood and it reflects everywhere else. We tend to take everything personal, but pleaseeee don't. If she still answers that's a pretty good sign.
The moment she starts replying only with '' Maybe, OK, or lol '' , day after day after day...then you could start wondering. There could be a lot of possibilities and overthinking it will just kill everything cause then your gonna start asking her all the time if you did something wrong and stuff, it will become too big for what it really is (probably just too busy or in a general bad mood-not related to you)
Just wait and see for the next few days.
Good luck !1