Hi everyone. I have a question
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months.. Before he dated a girl for a month, he was really in love and she cheated on him with his best friend, we started dating after 3 months.
I asked if he really liked me, and he said he really did. But when I asked to compared what he felt with me and with her he said that he was in love with her and that he would never feel like that again because he was hurt. He said with her it was a ten and with me a 9... But that for the long run what he had with me was better. He could imagine himself with me in the future and with her no.
He also said that he is not in love now, doesn't mean we can't be in the future, its only been 4 months ( however with her was instantly).
what do you think? Should I stick around? A 9 is good right?
(note: sometimes I feel like he is in denial. He calls me everyday when he leaves work, I've met his parents, sometimes he calls me during his morning break, he always goes out of his way to see me happy...)
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1) This is a typical case of a dude saying something without thinking about how it sounds first. I'm sure he meant something else by what he said, but it comes off to everyone else as sounding different.
2) Stop worrying about him, his ex, and the silly number rating scale. Focus on your relationship.0