So my boyfriend and I have been dating since 2009; it happened maybe a month after he broke up his current ex. Anyways for the last two or so years I didn't want him talking to his ex since I think they still have feelings for one another and he still has all the notes she wrote him and the stuff she gave him. every time I tell him not to talk to her he won't for a little while and then I will catch him talking to her whether its via text or email. I had him delete her off Facebook but the talking still happens. Why is he doing this?
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I think they prob just get along now they are not in a relationship. He prob looks at her as more of a friend/sister figure nothing more. I know it is really frustrating feeling like you are being left out but maybe say to him you don't mind just as long as you are updated on what she had to say. Does she know he is with you?0