Me and this guy have been very interested in each other for the past year now. And I've just been wondering why he hasn't asked me to be his girlfrend yet. I know he likes me and wants to be with me, we have discussed this a lot. He has told me that he just wants to feel okay, and happy before we start dating. And I've been here for him beyond someone you'd call just a friend. One day when we were talking about this he said he wants to do this the grown way. What does it mean when he says he wants to do this the right way, the grown way?
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I have no idea what that means?
Uhm but...definatly don't have sex with him or give him a hand job. (not saying you have)
Honestly you say he likes you and that he wants to be with you...but if he really wanted that then you would be boyfriend and girlfriend by now. So I would say don't do anything that a boyfriend/girlfriend or dating couple would do. That sounds like the grown way to me.
But yeah I would just tell him to describe the grown way...because from the looks of your age range your already grown. So its time for him to grow up or you to grow into a relationship with someone who knows what they want.