Everyone else (friends, etc..) have bf's, except for me!
What am I doing wrong?
I am really desperate right now :D
and no, I'm not a lesbian...
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I'm trying to think of a good reason but I can't. Getting a boyfriends all about luck. Being in the right place at the right time, knowing the right person to know the right person to bring you there to meet the right people to meet the right person, etc. etc. etc. to meet JUST the right person at JUST the right time and either they ask you out or you ask them out and they agree. You can follow the cause and effect right back to something that has absolutely no relevance to your boyfriend - I met my lover because someone I didn't know added me on Facebook the previous year. It was probably to do with my picture or something I had written on my profile. There was no way to predict that that person would pick up on it and add me; it was just impeccable luck.
So... Think of various cause and effect strings, and go do things that are at the start of that string. If you don't get a boyfriend right now, your life will at least take a very interesting turn, and you'll learn a lot. Don't be too concerned about getting a boyfriend though - want it, but don't be concerned. You've got friends at least.
Thats really bad advice by the way - I just spent two paragraphs saying 'Go do things'. But I think its among the best you're going to get, because there really is very little to be said for it.3