I've been set-up with this guy through mutual friends. I've been seeing him for a few weeks now and I'm intrigued to be honest.
He's 25, really cute and sweet, but also very shy and quiet. He's totally got his life together and has a really successful job, his own house, great car etc. This makes it even more strange (a somewhat shallow thought I know but prob true) when it came out that he's never been in a relationship at all before (not even been on a date with a girl) and is therefore obviously completely inexperienced when it comes to talking about relationships or getting closer physically (even holding hands, walking next to me and sitting on the sofa together he seems very nervous).
I'm 21 and the complete opposite I'm afraid- had my fair share of bad boyfriend experiences in the past and I'm pretty outgoing and confident most of the time. He's a complete contrast to anyone I've ever been out with before and I do really like him.
Do you think this sounds like it could work? Should I be concerned he's never had a girlfriend before? I get the feeling this guy could be a keeper actually just wanted some opinions!
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sounds like the type of guy I might end up to be. And it could work. The thing with shy guys is that you have to be patient with them. It takes a while before they are comfortable and can open with you. He'll be even more shy since he'll have a stunning girl at his side.
since he hasn't dated, I imagine he hasn't interacted much with girls either. So that means he doesn't know any better sometimes. And you'll have to forgive him, because it's a honest mistake.
communicate with him and make your feelings and thoughts known to him clearly. Encourage him to do the same. Trust me it will help. I was shy for a lot of my life up till recently. haven't dated and I hardly interacted with girls in person. So unlike the other guys I knew that had expereinced flirting with girls and being around them, I had no clue, didn't know why girls were acting a certain way at a certain time, meaning I didn't know any better.
Hopefully he as a few friends that are girls that he talks to?
let me know if you have any other questions . But yes this could work out between you 21