i find that white guys rarely want to date Asian girls unless she's very pretty (doesn't look asian) or has adapted very well into the white social culture.
my mom tells me that I should move back to my motherland or else I'll be forever alone in the US. It seems that she does make sense as I do not have any American friends, and it seems as if only black, latinos, or other Asians approach me. it sucks more that I am living in an area that's populated with rich white people.
i feel very depressed at times and ask myself why I was born an Asian girl. sometimes I want to die, because I know I'll never live a normal life. even if people don't admit they are racist, I know that ALL people are genetically programmed to be racist.
i know there are tons of Asian girls here in the US that are actually quite popular with white people and have white boyfriends as well...how are they able to adapt so well in American culture? what kind of Asian girls appeal to the American public?
i am plagued with low self esteem and sad thoughts. I am actually getting tension headaches from being sad most of the time.
sometimes I really want to kill myself or have plastic surgery so I will look like a white girl.
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I think you are thinking about this incorrectly... guys (regardless of race) rarely want to date girls (regardless of race) that have low self-esteem and sad thoughts. Likewise, girls rarely want to date guys that have low self-esteem and sad thoughts.
First step is going to be allowing yourself to like who you are. This will help your self-esteem. Go mingle, make friends BUT don't think about your race or anyone else's race.0