I'd like to hear what men think. I don't mean to be disrespectful or insulting to anyone in asking this...I know it is a blunt question...but I'd like an honest answer.
So...men...when you are looking for a wife, what age range are you looking for? I'm 27, and am worried that it's too late for me...I'm only asking because I've been told many times that I'm too old to find a decent guy...and I have overheard men talk...and all the ones I know have a wife/serious girlfriend that is younger...most of the men I know that are 27 and older are already married. Also, I've noticed that women that get married at an "older" age, like 30..have been in a relationship with the guy for a while.
Also, if a woman has never been in any sort of romantic relationship with a man before, would you question what is wrong with her? Because people ask me that quite a bit.
I'm not even sure if I would bother getting married, but now am not sure I have that option otherwise, anyway.
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I find this question odd, I really do. Maybe it's cultural. Sure a lot of people settle down very quickly, then again, a lot of people don't. A lot of my friends are in their late 20s, of both sexes, and many aren't married, or are single, many even still live at home (a capital offence in the US I believe!). There's just such myriad circumstances, as many tied down as there isn't, that I just don't understand why this question is posed. Think about it, if 40% of the 10,000s of the eligible males in your area are single, and 60% are tired down, that still leaves a hell of a lot single. This notion that there must be wrong with them, in the sense that they're nasty, ugly or whatever, is also fallacious. As I say, there's so many circumstances. One friend I know, a perfectly nice chap, recently split up with his partner of 4 years. I think that often the plebeian or provincial types are the ones who settle down quickly. Maybe they don't have much else to look forward to. Small town syndrome?
What are men looking for agewise? Well I can't speak for all men, but of course, younger women are physically more attractive, tighter bodies and such. Having said that, there are lots of facets to attractiveness, including maturity and insight which often comes with age. So, I'm at least willing to date up to my age and a little older.
"Also, if a woman has never been in any sort of romantic relationship with a man before, would you question what is wrong with her?"
Well it's certainly unusual but I wouldn't deem her some sort of freak. I'd just be curious. I'm just open minded generally though, and I don't necessarily exclude people just because they have lived a non conventional life.0