What does the term 'take it slow' mean to men?

I'm just curious what the male interpretation of taking a relationship slow means.

How would you act if you were seeing a girl and 'taking it slow?'

This applies to the bedroom as well.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • it means not having sex until there's a good chance things will last.

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What Guys Said 7

  • Ok, a long term relationship for men would be 3 months as opposed to the 6 months girls consider. Taking it slow means to take it slow- as in not have sex on an impulse, don't make out on the first date, etc

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  • Just off the top of my head:

    -- Keep the dates short (3 hrs. or less at first, maybe 5 hrs. or less as time goes on)

    -- Keep the dates spread out (once a week at most)

    -- No physical intimacy in the early stages (clouds judgment and complicates things)

    -- Date for several months before discussing relationship potential

    -- Keep things fun and enjoyable (no heavy, depressing or inappropriate subjects)

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  • No anal on the first date

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  • In the bedroom I guess I see it as she is the lead, and she'll let me know when she's ready to do stuff but all it takes is a small hint like undoing a belt and I'll take it from there...

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  • Taking it one step at a time and not rushing anything until both people are comfortable.

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  • Take it slow only has one meaning: no sex.

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  • To me it means I don't want to get too serious with you cause I'm not sure what I feel for you yet, if anything.

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What Girls Said 1

  • I would like to know this as well, thanks for asking the question.

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