I’m a 22 year old female in university.. I've been told I’m “really pretty/cute” etc. But not many guys approach me, maybe 5 that I can remember, although a lot just stare. (I'm not fat or something and I dress well) People find it hard to believe that I’ve NEVER dated or even kissed a guy. So yeah, I feel really inexperienced, childish and like I`m missing out. lol -_- Also, I don’t crush a lot, like maybe 1-2 people per year at most. Also, I’m transgendered. (meaning I've never felt completely "female`) I`d describe myself as equally boyish and girlish if that makes sense, or an effeminate boy. lol
Anyway about a week ago a guy from one of my courses approached me. It turns out we’ve shared a few classes together over the years (we just never spoke much lol). He’s kinda awkward and geeky but he’s really nice. We went for coffee and talked last Friday between classes. It looked like I made a new friend in him until he started suggesting things like going to his house to hang out and watch movies, and going on a picnic sometime. This is all after just talking to him once for maybe an hour. Since last Friday he’s been texting me a few times and called me yesterday but I missed his call. I think he might be looking for a relationship but I’m not interested in him that way. ;p I like him as a friend so far. BUT like I said I’ve never in my life had a boyfriend or dated or anything. I can’t see myself getting physical or anything of the sort with this guy but should I use him for experience? Like date him in a sense?
I feel bad even asking this. It makes me sound so mean. What would you do? Thx
Guess there's just a lotta butt-hurt guys on this site. I should never have asked this question here. forget it.