People say I'm pretty and cute, so why is it so hard to get a date or to be noticed? My guy friends say that I'm to quiet or I'm always reading and that's why I never get approached. I would approach a guy if I thought they would go for it but nobody ever seems that interested. I'm shy at first but once you get to know me I'm fun and loud. If I'm so "cute and pretty" then why is this so hard? I just want to have a chance to find a nice guy.
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Chances are you really are getting noticed, but I'm willing to bet that guys just aren't getting any vibe from you that you're interested. I tend to not show any signs of interest until I get some indication that I'm not wasting my time, because unless she's wearing a ring, there's no way to tell if she's in a relationship or not and that's not something I want to encounter.
I'm always reading, too, and I never get approached either. But would you approach someone who's reading, who you don't know, without any other reason than to strike up conversation? What if they're studying for a huge test or paper? I wouldn't want to interrupt that, so in that sense it's understandable why someone doesn't get approached when reading, despite all of the hype saying "meet people in cafes, book stores, libraries" etc. It seems more unusual circumstances need to be in place.
Personally, you've got a few things going for you - you're attractive, a hockey fan, and better yet, you're a Sabres fan. And we Sabres fans are very passionate about our team! Go to Party in the Plaza if you get a chance - tons of possibilities to meet people! Or go to a sports bar, get some dinner, and maybe the guy for you will show up out of the blue. I don't know you or how you portray yourself in public, so it's kind of hard to give you anything concrete to go on, but one thing I can say, with certainty, is that I wish you luck! :)
Oh, and Sabres game this Friday? I can't wait :D0