Please mention if you are shy or not .
Would you date her if you don't like her just because you are shy ?
And if you date her for any reason ( whether you like her or not ),
will you let her pay for you ?
And , do you think the girl is too much into him to ask a shy guy and pay for her ?
What is your views ? ( Both guys and girls )
- I would go on a date and let her pay17% (15)31% (17)23% (32)Vote
- I would go on a date only if I pay10% (9)9% (5)10% (14)Vote
- 50 -50 split47% (40)40% (22)44% (62)Vote
- I won't date her5% (4)0% (0)3% (4)Vote
- I would want to pay but I won't care much21% (18)20% (11)20% (29)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I'm Asian and therefore- I come from the brand of people who PUSH EACH OTHER DOWN as they rampage to the front to pay. Who start thacking each other with wallets and purses to pay (lightly, most of the time), who sneak off the instant the food arrives, without eating to pay.
And I hate Chivalry (even when it's good for me), so if I ask you out and I say I wanna pay. YOU'D BETTER LET ME PAY >8O
But personal views aside. I suppose I'm shy, but I would never date someone I didn't like, and I mean that as in the "I don't like you" way. If it's a really close friend and I really don't care one way or another and they know that, then sure, I'd go. You never know what could happen and I've had good experiences in that aspect. If they firmly insist on paying, as in, if I push my way into paying that it'll end up with us both arguing over the bill and neither of us are happy, then I'd let him pay, since being blindly "nice" doesn't always take into consideration the other person's feelings. But I do like a compromise ;)
Rule of thumb, if you ask someone out, at LEAST for the first time. Pay. It's a courtesy.