So Is it ok to hang out with the opposite sex 1on1 when you have a bf/gf?
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hmmmn that's a tough one. It really comes to the question if a guy and girl can be JUST FRIENDS or not...like between males and females, there's always some intitial attraction especially at this age in college where we want to meet guys and girls see how dating works and such, and its hard to beleive a guy and girl can be just friends. There has to be some kind of attraction that leads you or her to approach each other and become friends, otherwise why else would you care to be her friend, you know what I mean? unless you're short of friends or are anti social and want more buds...if a guy and girl can be just friends they have to overcome a sexual tension somehow, I guess by getting to know each other more and saying okay, she's like a bud, someone I wanna hold onto but in no way am I attracted to her or want anything more...shed be a galpal and if you can explain that to your girlfriend then may be shed understand...
but if you're hanging out with another girl who is just a friend, and your girlfriend doesn't know her, she doesn't know how you guys work or why you both are friends, girls are possessive and she can be thinking "hey how come my boyfriend won't hang with me right now I'm a girl too I can give advice and stuff" so its not a good idea to hang with the opposite sex.
to be honest, most guys are friends with girls, meaning JUST FRIENDS nothing more to get advice, on girls, get experience on how to understand talk to girls, and also my own guyfriends have told me most guys talk to girls because theyre more comfortable talking to them and can relate to them more and also if theyre friends with guys, it gets uncumfy and also competitive, so they rather be friends with girls then guys, they also admit there is some kind of attraction and most of my guy friends are also single. Once you get a girlfriend and settle down, you shouldnt need girl advice or see how girls work and stuff or should need a galpal for hanging out...so you should want to be around your girlfriend more than anyone IF you truly like her...
hope I helped =]