I stayed the night at my boyfriend's house last night, and this morning I woke up and this is how it started.
Him-"U took the damn cigs and weed what is your problem"
Me-"Okay mister you told me it was OK because you didn't know if you wanted to see me tonight or not. Do you not remember that? I wasn't trying to be a bitch b...that's why I asked first."
Him-"No I don't, I was sleeping a**hole"
Me-"I'm sorry, are you honestly mad?"
Him-"Yeah I am, I tried saying I love you and sh*t and you barely talked to me this morning"
Me-"Babe seriously I was kissing on you all morning"
Me-"Don't be pissed at me, are we not hanging out today?"
Me-"Do you WANT to?"
Me-"Really don't care at all?"
Me-"So why can't you give me an honest answer? Id rather spend Saturday with you"
Me-"I'm your f***ing girlfriend"
Me-"I'm not doing this"
Him-"Ok then do something about it"
How do I take this? What is he thinking right now?
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Not sure I understand the question title in relation to the situation. This was all done over text? Even though you woke up in the same house? Or was he gone by the time you woke up?
It's not a totally irrelevant confusion either since I wonder if he talks like this in person or just by texts. People have different personas when changing their medium of communication.
Anyways, given that your response to his "i tried saying I love you" thing was "i was kissing on you all morning" and not something that directly addresses his concern, I'd say that's why he is angry. People (im avoiding saying 'guys' because girls are guilty of this transference too) have a tendency to use mundane issues to initiate discussion concerning more serious matters. In this case - his confessing of loving you, whatever that might mean.
Keep in mind you didn't address his most significant comment at all throughout this excerpt. I'm not saying he's an angel by any means - immaturity is no excuse for rudeness and douchebaggery. Re think how your night went and consider what you may have said, or not said, that could have led to this problem.0