A guy stops liking you when you start to lose the qualities he originally liked you for, or when he realizes the chemistry you two shared is not unique to just you and him. From what I can tell, he mainly thought you were a huge flirt, and that will make almost ANY guy stop liking you. He might have thought what you and him had was special, then you two started working together and he saw first hand that the way you are with him, you are with EVERYONE - and that can be one of the biggest turn offs if not the biggest.
He wanted you to work with him so that he could spend more time with you, and get to know you better, and instead it resulted in you befriending everyone else (which there's nothing wrong with making friends, obviously). But while at first glance that doesn't sound that bad, what that entails is what might have caused him to become disinterested. Does you making friends mean you started spending more time with coworkers, going out for drinks, or even what could be considered date-like events with other male "friend" coworkers? Maybe you exchanged phone numbers with other male coworkers and started texting them or forming intimate friendship with them? If so, I can see how that turned him off, and it's understandable. Had it been the other way around, even you yourself would most likely feel the same way.
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he sounds like a jerk no offense.But then again I don't know him you do. About the smoking thing -It's too hard to try and make people change. I think the best thing to do in your situation is to just leave him alone. You guys probably just need some space so that he can realize he likes you again and you can recouperate.
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