So there's this girl I met online just started to chat away she asked me a bunch of questions and I asked her, she never asked on her own unless I asked something. Does this mean she's not interested?
I think it was to soon I said would you like to go for coffee sometime ( this was like an hour later) she said maybe if we talk more, so away I went talked to her for 4 hours online. Now when she comes on she doesn't message me I message her, should I ask her again or how long should I wait to ask if she would like to do something? I think maybe she's not into me yet I should just keep talking and wait a week more?
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You can't force a girl to be into you. However, you can guide them in the right direction. I suggest you let your conversations flow a little bit more and leave the coffee question out until you know for sure she's willing. It could be days, weeks, even more. Let her get interested in you on her own.
If she doesn't, then she doesn't. Chances are about even because she did give you some kind of hope. Don't be bummed if she ends up saying no, think positive and this could end up going either way. If your really into this girl, than it's worth the wait.0