I don't mean to sound insecure or anything, I'm just very shy and have literally no experience with dates or intimate (as in one person and myself) settings.
I met a guy online about a week ago, he lives one town over, and we want to meet up soon. My only problem is that I have no idea how to act, what to talk about, or how to snap out of being so shy. I'm 19, in college and I've never been on a date, never had a boyfriend, still a virgin, etc.. Can anybody offer any advice?
Please don't lecture/troll me about meeting people online, I'm asking for real help.
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When you first meet and after shaking hands/introductions or whatever, compliment him on the first thing you notice about him (clothes, hair, cologne?).
Then you can continue on with the discussion that you've had online. What did you two talk about? (it's a rhetorical question, don't answer that)
You must know at least a few of his interests now. Figure out a few questions about those things. The questions should be an open-ended question... no yes/no questions.
Don't get frazzled if there are some awkward moments. It's bound to happen.