i am 24, college grad and single (for most of my life) and can't find a date never the less get laid. I have ask numerous questions about this topic before but it doesn't seem to help. Everybody says that I must be patient til right girls come by or get off my ass and do something. Well I have tried both and still no luck so no I am at a crossroads with no where to go. After I had graduate from college I was forced to move back with my mother and my sister because I lost my job and I could not find a girlfriend to stay with me. My family is started to get worried about my sex life (especially my older brother) if I don't find a date soon then I really will become depressed and start to do something I will regret (don't ask). I am sick of tired f hearing about girls going through the same problems as us guys and to be honest you girls have it so much easier than us guys. You don't have to worry about putting in a lot of effort into meeting guys because pretty its natural for guys to approach girls. I am so sick of wasting time with girls who don't want to go out me because all they see me as a friend and nothing more. I am tired of watching p*rn, tired of looking girls pictures on Facebook, tired of putting my self out there to only be rejected. How many times can you be rejected before you reach your breaking point. I know this a lot but I have so much anger and frustration built up inside of me that its hard to express my true feelings towards women. Life is short and people can die at time all I want to do is to meet somebody that makes me happy and vice versa before I die is that much to ask?
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i hate how people say we guys have more options, that we have it easier because we have full societal-approval to pursue and make the first move and go after what we want, but I see that as a chore, because that just means you will get rejected, and most of the time you will, trying to find a girl that you like and will say Yes to you is like trying to win the lottery, the odds will always be against you, but at least we won't lose money but too many rejections gets frustrating, and I still think girls have it easier, yes 95 percent of those guys that make advances on girls are losers in their eyes but I know it must boost there self-esteem, it's a great ego boost0
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