... But I'm unclear on whether or not it's a date...
Here are the few first messages we exchanged...
That's a lot of face shots you have there. there is absolutely no way you have a bigger
appetite than me.
You have to see it to believe it! Haha...
Is that your cute way of asking me to a meal...? ;)
I'm not sure... Is that your sneaky way of implying that you want me to? :P
Haha. Maybe. Give me two reasons why I would want to meet
up with you, other than to see your seemingly infectious
smile in person...and maybe tell a few incredibly
politically incorrect jokes.
1. Because you'd get to see my incredible "happy dance," given, of course, that your
presence makes me happy.
2. Because we all deserve to give into temptation at least once in a while.
The only problem is that you're assuming I want to spend time with you... I'll need two
reasons in return, please. ;)
Haha. Happy dance? Now I am intrigued and potentially
tempted (you assumed this also... ;))
So two reasons to hang out with me?
1. I am super serious and never laugh, ever.
2. I will guess your heritage and correct your grammar.
1. Good. I hate laughing. Humour disgusts me. I prefer to act generally displeased with
2. a) I doubt it.
b) You can't correct my grammar if there's nothing to correct. ;)
Hope you're having a great weekend!
- A potential temptation.
Now, a few more messages, text messages and phone calls later, we've decided that on Friday night, we're going for drinks and then going on a "haunted walk" (tour of the haunted places in my city).
I feel like our conversation has been mildly flirtatious, and we did meet on a dating site... But it's still unclear to me what he's looking for, as he's not as blunt as many of the other guys on the site.
From what I know of him so far, I'm REALLY interested in him... But I'm not sure whether he's just looking for a new friend, as he's new to the city.
Thanks for your help :)
Most Helpful Guy
hell yeah your convos are flirtatious as hell...
i would consider it a date, but the only way to be sure its a date is if he pays for everything...then its officially a date
my advice would be to just go with the flow, I'd recommend showing up with a guy friend...or at least have him kind of int he background and then have you text him that you're ok...even if it is a public place, not to scare you or anything...im just looking out for you, I can only imagine what its like for girls to meet guys...
another suggestion is what I've done if I meet people online is to have them text you a specific pic...one they cannot fake...for example have him throw up the west side symbol with his hands...or tell him to send you a pic of his cross eyes with his left pinky touching his nose...
i mean that may be a little much but you get the point...you know what he really looks like and that he is for real...
anyways back to your question...its most likely gonna be a date, he seems interested in you and you two are clearly flirting...just go with the flow, don't rush anything and do what comes naturally.
you'll have a blast, haunted house is great because you'll most likely be touchy/feely which is a good way to become "closer" to one another and feel more comfortable...
sounds fun! be safe and have a good time :)0