I don't see why any self respecting guy would allow that to happen, sounds totally stupid and he's obviously being used
I actually asked a guy this question and he said he would probably blow her off- I don't blame him for saying that in fact if I was a guy I would probably do the same thing
It should be that the one who asks pays (or if they both agree, go half) because in the past, girls weren't even allowed to ask guys out, so she can't ask a guy out, and then revert to being "traditional" when it comes to paying, that's just wrong!
I'm actually surprised at how many stupid guys still think they should pay... do they have no self respect? There are only a handful of girls who think that though, and those are usually ones who would never ask a guy out anyway so they wouldn't even know what its like, and the few who would ask a guy out and still expect him to pay should be ashamed of themselves!
Get real, this is 2011, I don't see why the guy should always pay in this supposedly equal century, ESPECIALLY if the guy wasn't even the one who did the asking
So guys, if a girl asked you out and expected you to pay, how would you react?
- I would be very angry and there would be no second date0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- I would be annoyed and there would be no second date3% (1)33% (5)13% (6)Vote
- It would be a deal breaker3% (1)13% (2)7% (3)Vote
- I would pay anyway3% (1)47% (7)18% (8)Vote
- I'm a girl and want to see the answers91% (27)7% (1)62% (28)Vote
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If she asked me out and expected me to pay, it is _highly unlikely_ that there'd be a second date.
The only way I can see this being okay is if we were sort of dating, I made lots of money, she made none, and I asked her to _plan_ the date. Though I think even then, she should have planned a date she could afford, and if that means going for a walk in the park, so be it.2