So I went to have a few drinks with this girl When we went outside it was sorta chilly and I was wearing a jacket with a light sweater underneath. She was only wearing a t-shirt and she said "Im cold" while looking at my jacket. I replied saying, Id be cold too if I gave you my jacket." Too much or am I playing it right?
I'm trying to be the bad boy, do you think I took it too far?
What Girls Said 5
Thats AWFULL So now I get it that " bad boys" in English is not a cool guy with an edge, that definetely a mean person...
I think the " bad boys" girls like isn't a jerk that is mean but a guy that has a forward attitude...
The correct answer would be come here that I can make you warmer and hug her... Not be a selfish boy1
But your logic is sound! She *should* have brought a jacket. O:1
HORRIBLE.! >< I mean girls like bad boys but we want them to be sweet to us.! Bad to everyone else & to those that hurt us, not bad TO us :( if you want to play the bad boy you should have just taken the jacket off non nonchalantly and put it on her and just say nothing.~ It shows that you're giving and not selfish :(1
This all depends on if you like the girl or not.
If you like the girl I would say that was a jackass move, when you're alone with the girl, it's really great when the guy shows that he cares, especially if you had given her the jacket with a blink in the eye.
What you did was showing a selfish side and might have gotten the girl to think badly of you.
I want to add in the end, this all depends on what kind of girl she is, if you like her and how much you know her.0
Big mistake...women appreaciate it when a man acts like a gentleman. Being a 'bad boy' means nothing if women don't like you...1
What Guys Said 4
Hopefully you did give her your jacket, if she really was cold...if not, then yeah, taking it too far. Not cool. Not every time a girl says something it's a test, or an opportunity for "alpha" behavior.
If you're EVER "trying" to be alpha or the bad boy, there's a good chance you're trying too hard. Think in terms of being less inhibited instead of being more uninhibited--being more of your true self instead of becoming someone "better" than who you are. If she can't appreciate your confidence (which you're trying to develop) with simple chivalry and manners, then clearly she's not the right girl for you.3
Well I think that its a thin line between being the bad boy and being an a**hole :P , I think that in this situation you went closer to the a**hole :/0
i'm not a bad-boy or jerk, but I think you are doing it good so far, because if you gave her the jacket, that would show you are kissing up to her, girls hate guys that they can control0
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