There's this girl in my English class that I have an interest in and when told a female friend about it she was excited to hear that I was interested in this girl which makes me want to talk to her even more. The problem is though that I never do. And during class is the only time I see this girl I'm interested in. I think I can't talk to her because I don't feel confident enough about not making a good conversation with her and have trouble of thinking about things to talk about with her. So I need help with starting a good conversation with her and how to get her to enjoy talking with me. Any tips and advice would be welcomed as well.
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You can't get anyone to enjoy talking to you, and you shouldn't be anyone other than yourself. If she doesn't enjoy that, it's her problem.
Anyway, talk about anything other than the weather. If she has any interest in you as well, it won't be hard to talk to her. She'll meet you halfway. You have to approach her to know these things, though.
Once you've broken the ice, just don't wait FOREVER to get to the point: asking her out. I don't mean ask her out straight away, but don't leave it too long. I hate when men don't make a move. Some of us are old fashioned and still believe in you taking the initiative. Seriously I go for the "You. Me.Dinner.Friday" type of guy over the one that stares and smiles and never says anything. Don't be THAT guy.0