ladies, do you prefer a man you like to take you out and call you right after, (pursue you), or do you think it's better if a man is exciting but gives you space to miss him after a date? I did something with someone that I like...we enjoyed each other, wrestled around a bit, but I like to talk to her. I call her everyday because I feel that I am confident enough to not care about phone games. But I don't want to feel like I'm 'too much' in her face. Is it a good thing to call a woman casually much, or do you think its more effective to show her an exciting time and disappear for a while? by the way we have a date on Sunday and we came from a casual get together yesterday...how can I get her to be 'more attracted' to me if I already make her laugh and play a lot :) and we are just friends btw.
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I personally like when a guy tries to pursue me and puts effort into talking to me instead of just dropping of the earth for a day or two after a date. But on that note, you said she has a boyfriend...so why are you still trying to get with her? I mean, she has a boyfriend. She's taken. That's probably why she doesn't always answer your calls...like she doesn't want to lead you on since she has a boyfriend, or she could be with him when you're calling her and her answering your call would just start unnecessary drama. It does sound like she enjoys hanging out and spending time with you, otherwise she would make up excuses to not have to. She might just see you as a friend and not realize that you want to be more than friends, so my best advice would be to talk to her about it and ask if she thinks you two might ever be more than friends...0
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