i flirted with this guy's friend and he found out. after that we kept fighting and I said somethings about people and he won't delete them and says if I say sh*t about him he will tell people the truth isn't that like black mail?
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Nope. I did the same thing to my ex. every single time she came running back saying how badly she wanted me,loved me and wanted to marry me because I knew within a few weeks she would run back to the other guy and pretend like I was the problem. And guess what? it was all her fault for not being real.
Sorry but men don't like it when you tell them a bunch of BS and then lie about it. You would be surprised how often woman say that they " never felt like this before" , " Love you more then life itself" and basically repeat the same BS lines over and over again. Sometimes even within a few days of just saying it to someone else! believe me,we all notice.
So no, it is not black mail. because those were your words that you sent to him. Now they belong to him. next time you shouldn't open your mouth if you don't actually mean or will stand by what comes out of it.0