i love this girl and she says she wants to wait to date but says she would date me I think she's just cautious from her last boyfriend and she doesn't want to screw anything up but I kinda feel the same way I want to wait too and furthermore I want what she wants I wanna marry this girl. I've known her since I was 7 and now were teens. what do I do until she wants a bf?
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Dont get me wrong some relationships do develop from a friendship into a romantic one.. That's cool but this girl is saying she wants to be your best friend before she can even develop a romantic relationship with you. How do you know if your her best friend NOW and if not how long are you willing to wait for her to be her best friend so you can be together as a couple. Do you think she is saying this to you because she feels that there isn't a deep enough connection for you to have a relationship with her now. What happens when she meets a guy that she feels she is really attracted to and really likes and ends up going out with him. It seems to me that this girl is keeping you on the side as her safety blanket incase she doesn't meet a guy that she can straight away have a deep connection attraction with to be a girlfriend- boyfriend couple. I think you are way to young to be thinking long term in terms of marriage. You haven't explored the waters yet.. you don't know if your gonna meet the girl of your dreams next week or in 3 years. But when it does happen you will know and the girl will know and destiny will naturally bring you together with no complications.. it will just work. My advice is don't wait for this girl.. I know youve been friends since you were younger but you can continue to be friends. You should go and explore. HAVE FUN and meet lots of girls that your attracted to , have relationships with them and see where they go and if they don't lead you to what youve been looking for ... TRUE LOVE... then you just have to keep looking and eventually you will meet her and your life will never be the same again. Who knows this girl who is your friend might actually realize after she has seen you with all these girls that she does love you and you share that special connection that you don't share with no one else = and you might end up together. DONT WAIT FOR THIS GIRL... HAVE FUN WITH LOTS OF GIRLS AND LOST OF RELATIONSHIPS AND IF ITS MEANT TO BE IT WILL HAPPEN WITHOUT YOU EVEN KNOWING.0