Please Don't Be Rude...
im a nice girl...i have a big heart
im pretty popular, I get along well with many people
and I love laughing and making people laugh
im outgoing and love to have fun doing a variety of things
im attractive and in shape (I work out all the time lol)
...oh and I can cook lol (seriously)
i will NOT have sex before I'm married...but I WILL do other things...
oral, rubbing "parts" without clothes (I don't want to be too explicit lol) etc. etc. I can be pretty creative
oh and I don't need people yelling at me about keeping my V card I don't feel like being judged, my reasons for keeping that part of myself for my husband are way too long to list on Yahoo
just please answer me this:
Would you guys mind dating a girl like me?
my values haven't caused me a problem in the past but I'm moving to NYC pretty soon so maybe I'm just wondering.
GUYS please just tell it to me straight!
What Guys Said 11
I see no problem in that whatsoever. I am 20 and have not because I am waiting till I'm married. Not as a religious thing, but as a respectful thing. You don't need to go around doing people then marry someone else. If that is what you want and someone wants to still be with you they should respect your wishes. Other wise find someone who can.2
Some are fine with it.. some are not.
Just depends on the guy. Be sure to get it out there in the open if you have a guy this is interested. Becuse if you tell him after you start dateing, it could be a huge problem.1
Yeah I would mind, Woof Woof. If the oral would be out of this planet I could consider. And you really think that sucking cocks is fine but intercourse with a condom on is so horrific? The funny thing is, that the guy you end up marrying probably won't even care about your virginity, because he loves you. And what if the sex is bad with the guy you end up marrying? What if he expects to get sex regulary but you don't want to because it hurts too much or whatever and then he breaksup ? Then there you are, all broken and with a missing V card.
PRO TIP: ORAL IS SEX SO YOU AREN'T A VIRGIN ANYMORE IN THE FIGURATIVE SENSE OF THE WORD. You just haven't popped your cherry yet (wich some loose over to a tampon}.
Here's a funny senario, you tell your man that you're a virgin and then give him oral. He asks how come you're so good at giving head and you reply: Oh I've sucked more dicks then I can count but don't worry hun, I haven't lost my virginity. He sobs silenty: " You kissed me with that mouth of yours? " and then runs away with tears in his eyes.0
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I wouldn't mind at first.
Then I'd probably get frustrated.
Your reasons for keeping your V-card couldn't possibly make enough sense to me to keep me around very long.0
Yes I would mind. Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship but it is important especially when males (and females) have and need to satisfy their sexual urges. I think a lot of guys would mind but would say they don't so they don't look shallow like they are just 'in it for the sex'. It is just natural for us to want sex.0
im looking for a good girl like u. because I've decided to stop having sex and give my life to God. but from how my friends are and how I USED TO BE...it'll be pretty hard to find a guy to respect dat. but da head helps!0
You're perfect! A guy needs some lovin, and you're willing to do oral, which I would be fine with until I'm married. But saving the last part of you for your husband is what every girl should do. seriously, I wish every girl was exactly like you.0
No. I don't want oral or anything till I'm married.0
it kinda depends on what type of guy he is..0
What Girls Said 1
I can say from personal experience that you will find that some guys would be patient with it, but others just do not want to deal with that. I was a virgin up until about a month ago, and most guys said they respected that and actually meant it, and some guys said they respected it, but it was quite obvious they didn't. I think it's more of a challenge for guys to wait to have sex with a girl til marriage or after marriage, and not all guys are willing to work towards that cause that's a long time for some guys. You'll know when you meet that guy, though.3
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