I cold approach a girl in my class to get her to grab some lunch with me. I brought her to a little sushi place not far from school, and I did not let her pay. I think we had a great time, and the conversation flowed continuously. On our way back, she told me "I had a good time" and I got her number. Now, obviously I approached her because I am interested in her, would she have considered this a date? This seems obvious to me but I just want to make sure.
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Well, you paid, which is very date-like. So I think it's safe to say that she knows you're interested. The question is how interested is she? If she told you she had a good time and she gave you her number, that's definitely positive. The next step is to have some teasing, fun banter with her, either in class or over text and then ask her out on another date. Plan something fun and interactive where you can learn more about each other and interact in some way. Ideally you should start getting some playful touching going on so she gets used to your physical presence in your interactions. Then in one of the next 2 dates you need to move in for the kiss. At that point there will be no doubt left that what you are doing is going on full fledged dates.0
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