I met this guy a few days ago and we have been texting for 4 days now. During this time we have texted almost constantly and I'm pretty sure he is interested in me. We have a lot of subtle flirting. What is concerning to me is that he hasn't called to talk to me or asked me on a date. I can't really tell what his motives are. I know that he is interested but why hasn't he made a move? Is there any way I can get him to make a move without explicitly telling him what I want?
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He is either doing this to drive you crazy which will usually increase your attractiveness to him or he's like me and has a few girls on the back burner and likes texting a bunch all at one time. . . its way more fun than talking to one girl on the phone. Granted, this is usually with girls that I have at least "made a move" at least once with.
He could just be shy and is afraid you'll say "no, I'm busy". .. especially after all of the emotional investment and time he has put into you (texting). It might be safer for him just to keep texting you without rejection and he's secretly hoping you'll ask him out.0