I've tried it before but it seems like guys always want you to message them. Do guys take it seriously? And how do you show interest without sounding weird?
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I've tried it for many many years : / ... I know I've only just turned 19 but, since I was 11 I've been searching teen chat sites, teen social site's, date site's (when I turned 16-17), im' messenger's, lots of different sites and methods, hours and hours a day. I maxed out more than a few free date sites within my year span of extreme dedication to searching, listing, and sending message's to the girls I felt most interested in.
Not even drawn close : / ...
Works differently for different people. Haven't even met a girl off a site or off the net so, I couldn't say whether it would work for you. Maybe it's my appeal. Or maybe it's my preferences, I don't know, all I know, is it hasn't returned for my efforts yet : / ...
So, I just stick to this site now. I can word my opinion and share my knowledge, and that way hopefully, maybe, some nice girl will pick me out :) and I'll pick her out too. That's in my day dreams anyway.
But, I'd still back the idea. Merely because logically, you can contact more people a day, than you ever would within 6 months of your average weekly routines. That and the factor that you can be more open and honest - being that you have anonyminity, and share information with each other more comfortable, quickly, effectively. Not have to worry about giving off or interpreting the right signals. Not have to dress to impress. Just share yourself with the person, and if it develops and you like what you hear, then merely go from there :)
Just make sure your specific on how you communicate, and make sure they are too, because either their not as passionate as you are about finding the perfect partner, or their not online to do so, merely shallow leisure, scamming, spamming, advertising or just not interested.
But there the minority I'm certain :) ... So much hype about them aspects of the net but, I've never had any trouble with it, and I'm probably the most experienced online relationship seeker on this site. lol.
Well anywho... Good luck :) and if you need any advice or opinion, then don't be shy to message me :)0
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